I find that Synthesis is only possible once we are able to love ourselves. How can we do this with all those memories of past life traumas, present day abuses and isolation? What would be the easy way? To tell you honestly there is no easy way. Loving yourself means coming to terms with our deepest feelings of fear, anger and resentments. We must understand who is the Inner child, Self and Ego. What role does each play? Learning how to use our angers, and learning how the venting of anger ultimately enhances our relationships.
We all use three major ways of influencing each other's fields. Some of these ways are positive; some are negative. We make positive energy connections with people. In these positive interactions, we do not allow others to mistreat us. We are centered within ourselves and communicate well.
is it that, we want the most? When we are insecure and fearful we need
the most is for others, to accept us, love us unconditionally and most
importantly Not to reject us. Inspite of being good or bad we need
that love, nurturance and acceptance. So does the Inner child and the
Ego. If the Ego is the darkside of the Inner child and we start looking
at our Ego in fear, behavioral habits set in. Inner child and the Ego
both are to be accepted as yourself. Both must be loved. Love is really
a emotion of trust, kindness and compassion. It integrates and synthesizes
the fears with the expression of self love. To Ascend we need to love
allows us to be compassionate and forgiving others, and most importantly